Finding Our Life purpose and Dreams

What is your biggest dream in LIFE? Do you have one or more than one? Do you ever feel that your dream is too big and you started to desperate and give up? I do. :) Don't worry, it is our right to have big dreams. Everyone can dream as high as they can, but in some cases, people getting older and think that dream is getting difficult and impossible to achieve because reality has come to their life. And mostly, sadly, we accept that reality. Don't we? Or.... have you ever feel confused of what is your life purpose? I do. Believe me, I bet most of the people really forget what is the purpose of Life, why they life, and what for. I'm 20 years old person and I am realizing it. Let me tell you more...

I had read some articles and found that people who are dying admitted that they regret of what they've done in their life. Some said that they regret for wasting their precious time for not doing something good for others. Some others saying that they work too hard, and not happy doing it. In my opinion, this is so unfortunate because we can only once, and I'm sad knowing those people are actually disappointed and upset. And I realize that this kind of thing can be happen on me too. There must be a chance that I also regretting my own life. I don't want this to be happen. knowing the fact that many people has their life purpose in the very beginning, but there are more people who are also lost along the way. I'm beginning to worry about myself too.

Life-Regret is the things that someday we might experience it

The simplest things I can do to keep me motivated in life are 1. Remember my life purpose. 2. Have dreams. 

The first point might be the most difficult not only for me but also everyone. For people in the same age like me (20 years old), I can guarantee that some of them might not acknowledge their own life purpose. They are still in phase of finding it, confusion of their real passion, and some others even don't have it all. Honestly, I experienced the same things. There was a moment in my life when I asked myself, why does God creates me in this world? Who am I? Why does God put me into this beautiful world? And why does human exist? Do you ever questioning yourself the same thing like I did to myself? Then, keep reading.

Most of our time spent for learning, studying at schools, socializing with friends, working or just being lazy at home. But really... Are those things really meaningful and worth to do? Why do we all do those things? The only reason that I finally realize is because we are created to be a better and useful person of other people in this world.  You are created because you are supposed to be useful for your friends, family, your neighbor, your children, your student, your grandma, your teacher, or even all people in this world. We can't be selfish doing all the things we like, we love, but we forgot the meaning of your existence which is being useful. And this is exactly what I keep in mind. this keeps motivates me doing every single thing in my daily. I do it because I know it will be somehow useful for other people whether it is small or big matters.

I give you a simple example like this: I am as a student who is going to school for a better future. In this case, I want to get a high-salary job as a teacher. But, I'm not wanting it because I just want to be rich or being able to buy luxurious car so then I can brag it to my friends. BIG NO. I want to be rich so that I can have enough or even better, MUCH money then I can build a school for underprivileged students. Or if I were smart enough, I can be be a scientist that creates new drugs to heal cancer or AIDS. From these simple example, at the end, whatever you do is basically for the sake of other people/ humanity. Then, please a good person. Don't do drugs, don't steal, don't drink, just stop abusing yourself  because whether you know it or not, we are needed by others somewhere. And I believe that I could make a change to myself, develop myself to better person and bring a difference in the future. We all can do it. So, from now on, don't be selfish and start thinking about being useful to others.

The second point, be brave to dream big. By making new dreams, you will be motivated to strive and also struggle to achieve that. Your dream is your life goal. Don't worry, dreams sometimes changes along the time and also when we are get older, but you have to at least have one big dream in your life. By then, you will be able to enjoy every process achieving those dreams. Your life is meaningful, your time is precious, so, don't waste it, but use it for better reason.

In the end, your true happiness will be coming to you, and that real happiness that people want to have is actually seeing other people happy because of what you do for them. Their happiness is your happiness. Bad experience or sad moments in your life is just another step in the stairs of life-journey. You have to keep move on and on. You can't just stop or step backwards because you have your life purpose, and also those beautiful dreams of yours. Your life is not supposed to be sad because we all deserve to be happy, and we must share that happiness by being useful to others.

Live your LIFE. :')